One of the biggest fantasies of guys who watch porn or watch paid sex cams is to actually fuck a real life babe that they met on an adult dating site. I mean, this should be a no-brainer. I mean, the main reason why people read Playboy, and I used the word “read” very loosely here, or Penthouse, is because there is some sort of fantasy going on. You’re not just there to see how big each members tits are and to kind of passively enjoy the beauty of her body pics on her profile. Your mind is working on overdrive. You’re thinking of putting yourself in the picture and the things that you’re thinking of doing to that member is sometimes too hard core and too filthy to put in print, but you get where I’m coming from, right?
Well, the internet has really changed this dynamic because the sad part of watching porno or reading a XXX magazine is because it’s passive. You look at content and you just sit back there and you just flip the pages or you scroll from window to window or you link from one window to the next, and you’re just consuming content. It’s a one-way conversation. The conversation already exists and you either have to take it or leave it. Very flat, boring, and dull.
It’s no surprise then that canned or pre-programmed porn is dying out. The demand for it is pretty much gone because you can get that stuff for free and the online entrepreneurs behind all those porn sites are basically fighting over scraps. This is why the whole idea of online dating and especially online sex dating are so compelling and this is why a lot of porn producers have moved on to online dating, and in some cases webcams.
It does happen that audience members can be selected by the producers of those shows to actually have sex with other members. I mean, it doesn’t happen all the time and it doesn’t apply to all networks, but it does happen. That’s why for once, the whole fantasy of finding a sexdate is actually not just viable, but actually real.